Ok stolen from Mrs H

I have had sex while wearing a blindfold.
I have blindfolded someone else during sex.
I have had sex while watching porn
I have had sex while surfing porn on the Internet.
I sleep better after sex.
There are some nights I cannot sleep without sex or masturbating
The bed is NOT my most favorite place to have sex.
I am turned on knowing someone is watching me masturbate.
I have masturbated for someone over a web cam.
I have had sex over a web cam.
I will have sex with someone I just met if they turn me on. not anymore but I have yes MRS H I KNOW TROLLOP
I have been tied up during sex.
I have had sex with someone who was tied up.
I have dripped wax onto a lover's body.
I have had a lover drip wax onto my body.
I have a foot fetish.
I have a leather fetish.
I have a tickle fetish.
I like being choked during sex.
I have had sex in a burning building.
I have erotic art on display somewhere in my residence.
I enjoy nudie magazines.
Erotic toys are a regular part of my budget.
I think PLAYBOY is tame, maybe even boring.
I have clicked on porn links in my email.
I know the difference between girl/girl and lesbian sex in porn.
I have watched more than one gay/lesbian porn video.
Much of what I know about sex comes from porn.
Interracial sex turns me on.
I think we should do more to understand the cultures of sex.
I would participate in sex research given the opportunity.
My current lover does not sufficiently meet my sexual needs.
I currently have a "crush" on someone of the same sex.
I have had sex at my place of employment.
I am often disappointed in my sexual relationships.
Some people might describe me as a nymphomaniac.
I am difficult to live with if I'm not having sex on a regular basis.
I sleep better with someone snuggled up next to me
I have had sex under water.
I have had sex in the snow am in a polyamorous relationship.
I have to have music playing while having sex.
I have had more than ten orgasms in one night.*
I have flashed strangers.
I have given sex as a gift.
I have set-up a three-way for my lover.
I stopped during this list to have sex.*

My heart breaks

Everytime I have to say goodbye to Todd that is. It is so hard. We had a great weekend. I drove up there Friday after work and got there right before 7. We had a few beers and watched some movies (Bewitched and some old horror flicks on AMC) We then got up Saturday and went and looked a place we may rent. He would move in soon and I would follow in February. It was cute, i love it up there. We then went and looked around some furniture stores to get an idea of what we want to do for our place when we move in together. SO then we decide to go to this one little bar to have ONE beer. Well there was this old man there that came up and started talking to us, he had a huge wad of cash and said "You two just hang out and drink on me all day long" well ok! So like 5 1/2 hours later we are leaving the bar LOL Todd was not nearly as messed up as me. I was fine until I switched from beer to white russians. I was playing pool with a bunch of the locals and learned one lesson, when I move up there I will NEVER go to a bar without Todd! LOL It was like these men had never seen a woman before. Then we went back to his parents house, his mom made a kick ass dinner, we watched "Kingdom of Heaven" and "Land of the Dead" well he watched the latter I pretty much passed out for awhile. Then woke up and watched the original Friday the 13th, I can't believe how scared that movie used to make me LOL Then Sunday we just kicked around, washed and detailed his car then washed one of his dad's Harley's. I made us lunch and so did not want to leave yesterday afternoon. It is very hard being so far away from him during the week. Lord knows we are on the phone all the time or emailing from work, but it is still hard. I miss him tons already. Oh well, tonight we will go trick or treating, thanks Mrs H for letting us tag along in your neighborhood. So I guess I will see you guys tonight. I love ya and I am looking forward to going and hanging with movieman in tempe next Wednesday night for the movies. Have a great day guys!!!

Weekend Change of Plans

Well I am driving up to Payson tomorrow after work. Todd asked me if I would rather come up there and get away from it all. Well HELL YA!!! i love it there. I was just telling Mrs H I will probably be moving there in February. I will keep you posted.

Love ya!

Some Pictures

Bored

Yup bored at work. Blew through a ton of stuff and I am waiting for the next round of crap. My boss and his son are out of the office until Tuesday, I am the only person in the office who can write policies, discuss coverages, etc so ya a little lull right now is nice. I posted some more pictures in my yahoo pictures of this past weekend.

I am looking forward to Friday when Todd comes down. I will not have the kids so we are just going to have some beers and rent some horror movies. Any really good ones you could recommend movieman?

Love
The Diva princess

Meet the Parents

Well Todd met my dad and step mom this weekend and it went great. They loved him and he thought they were great, too. So that worked out well. I will post pictures once I get them developed. I had a nice time in the cool country. We all took the boys up by Sunrise Ski Resort to run like idiots and to see the beautiful colors changing.

Todd bought me a set of pearls, as I have always wanted some. There is a necklace, bracelet and earrings. I love them! It was really neat as I have not had a man buy me jewlery in like 15 years, so that was amazing. He is so good to me, I am feeling very lucky and I am very much in love. What a great feeling!

Hope everyone is well. I thought of Mrs H last night when I was watching Grease on Channel 3! Love ya all!!!

Missing My Mom

I am jealous of Mrs H today, her mom is here and I so terribly am missing mine right now. I am hoping she can get out here next year sometime. If not I will not see her until we all go to Maine in July for the bi-annual family reunion. She is so awesome and it is hard being so far away, but she is so happy and things are going great for her so that is awesome.

Looking forward to kind of getting away. Todd has some classes down here Mon-Wed and his work put him up in a hotel in Old Town Scttsdale starting Sun night and I am going to stay there with him. So even though I have to work, it will be nice to have some quiet alone time at night with him. I am so happy right now and still feel so lucky to have met him. It is especially nice to be with a man that treats me like gold but also treats himself good, takes care of himself, cares about his appearance and is not a pot head! LOL

Oh well, hope everyone has a great weekend!

Love
the Diva Princess

Ok Stupid Quiz Time

Gummy Bears

You may be smooshie and taste unnatural, but you're so darn cute.

What Kind of Candy Are You?

The Keys to Your Heart

You are attracted to those who are unbridled, untrammeled, and free. In love, you feel the most alive when things are straight-forward, and you're told that you're loved. You'd like to your lover to think you are stylish and alluring. You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please. Your ideal relationship is open. Both of you can talk about everything... no secrets. Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment. You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred. In this moment, you think of love as something you can get or discard anytime. You're feeling self centered.

What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

Your Ideal Relationship is Marriage

You've dated enough to know what you want. And that's marriage - with the right person. You're serious about settling down some time soon. Even if you haven't met the person you want to get hitched to!

What's Your Ideal Relationship?

You Are 30% Weird

Not enough to scare other people... But sometimes you scare yourself.

How Weird Are You?

You Are an Appletini

Most of the time, you're a typical party girl / guy. But when you get super sauced, you really up your sex appeal.

What Mixed Drink Are You?

What Your Underwear Says About You

You like your underwear to make you feel girlish and pretty. Let's hope you're a chick. You're comfortable in your own skin - and don't care to impress anyone.

The Underwear Oracle

How You Are In Love

You fall in love quickly and easily. And very often. You give and take equally in relationships. You tend to get very attached when you're with someone. You want to see your love all the time. You love your partner unconditionally and don't try to make them change. You stay in love for a long time, even if you aren't loved back. When you fall, you fall hard.

How Are You In Love?

Your Birthdate: December 27

Your birth on the 27th day of the month (9 energy) adds a tone of selflessness and humanitarianism to your life path. Certainly, you are one who can work very well with people, but at the same time you need a good bit of time to be by yourself to rest and meditate. There is a very humanistic and philanthropic approach in most of things that you do. This birthday helps you be broadminded, tolerant, generous and very cooperative. You are the type of person who uses persuasion rather than force to achieve your ends. You tend to be very sensitive to others' needs and feelings, and you able to give much in the way of friendship without expecting a lot in return.

What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

Your Career Type: Enterprising

You are engertic, ambitious, and sociable. Your talents lie in politics, leading people, and selling things or ideas. You would make an excellent: Auctioneer - Bank President - Camp Director City Manager - Judge - Lawyer Recreation Leader - Real Estate Agent - Sales Person School Principal - Travel Agent - TV Newscaster The worst career options for your are investigative careers, like mathematician or architect.

What's Your Ideal Career?

Things are great

I really am a happy girl! Things with Todd keep getting better, he is awesome! I am solucky, if you told me a year ago when I was going through my Amex crap thatI would find a great job, a wonderful man to love and all would be right in my world I would have laughed and cried. I am blessed.

I do miss my friends though, we all need to plan on getting together soon. Hey Mrs H what's up for Halloween? Do you guys want to do the trick or treat thing again?

Love you all!!

thank you Mr and Mrs H!!!

For letting me do the party at your place. The kids had such a great time! I really appreciate it!

Love
the Diva Princess

Most wonderful weekend!

Thought I would share a picture of me and Todd from the other night. We had so much fun this weekend! Miss you guys and love you! Mrs H thanks for leaving the glasses out for me...

In a state of bliss

Well my friends things are still going great with Todd. We went camping Saturday and had just the best time, he makes me laugh, feel special and he treats me like a Princess. It such a nice feeling. Anyways Sunday morning we packed up and went and spent the day and the night at his parent's house. They were great people, we had a really nice time. I am taking Thursday and Friday off this week and he is going to come down tomorrow night and stay until Sunday. he has an interview tomorrow so I am keeping my fingers crossed. Hard to believe I met a nice guy and what is even more hard to believe is that he is a nice guy I actually lik him! I seem to usually be attracted to some real assholes. oh well hope you guys are ok. I miss ya and love ya and will see you on the 17th!

Love
The Diva Princess

My big fat dating life

Well it could not be better. I have actually taken my profile off the searching list since I have met Todd. He is so awesome. I love being treated like a Princess and getting to turn around and treat him good. Tuesday night was wicked cool, he came back down cause he had interviews lined up. Bill took the kids after work so Todd and I had the later evening to ourselves, we watched a movie and had a beer. He treats me with so much respect it is odd and wonderful. Emails me nice little letters at work, calls me before work, at lunch and at night before bed. I am very happy.

Anyways my roomie is not so much. I think he is a little jealous that I have a new person in my life so I do not have as much time for him. Long story and I will post later.

Movieman it was great to celebrate your birthday with you! Awesome party thrown Mrs H. I love you guys!!!!

Tomorrow Night

Yuppers I am bringing a date. How cool is it to have met a guy daring enough to meet my friends AND hang with my kid? (I will only have Kenny as Will is staying at his friends house)

Love you all!

Ok more dating updates

Well let's see, I broke things off with Spence. I was not about to stay involved with someone who I feel is a player, plus we both pretty much agreed a friendship was there was any ways.. Long story but whatever. Still talk to Matt but definately only as a friend!I have been talking this past week with a guy I am really intrigued with. His name is Todd, he is almost 37. He is moving from Payson to Scottsdale soon. He is coming down this weekend, which should be fun. We talk for hours on the phone every night. He is a nice guy that I think has some serious dating potential. I love talking to him on the phone. He is wicked cool!

So anyways that is what is going on with me.

The Online Dating Chronicles

What a crazy night. Ok I need to back up and give you some info. First I was over at Spence's again Sunday and we had a good time. He told me that his work and family life are crazy right now and he asked if I could bare with him, he is not sure when his schedule will break at all, but did ask if I could wait. Ok so that was fine. We emailed on Monday, emailed and talked on Tuesday, did one email Wednesday and I did not hear from him today. So I figured that was his way of giving me the big blow off, even though Sunday he said we would get together tonight. Well since I did not hear from him I agreed to go out with this other guy Paul. As I am getting ready to go out Spence calls me and asks if we are still getting together, I said umm I am on my way out since I did not hear from you. He apologized, he was the only personal banker at his branch today so he was slammed. He was only supposed to work until 4:00 but did not leave until 7:00. (By the way I never realized how much crap a personal banker has to do, I have such a bigger appreciation for them now) anyways he said if I got done early to call him, that he had been planning on seeing me tonight. Too bad so sad I thought. Well I meet this guy Paul, we have talked and chatted and he seemed pretty cool. Then I met him WHAT A LOSER OMG he has no car, he said let's meet at the bowling alley by my house, cool I think we are going bowling, wrong we sat in the bar watching baseball, he has no money so he could not even afford a coke, I certainly wasn't about to pay, he bummed smokes from me and then I told him I was tired and had to cut it short but would drive him home, get this ya know who he lives with that drives him to work and everywhere HIS GRANDMA!!! Ok buddy 36 tome to grow up. Anyways that is an hour of my life I will never ever get back *sigh* so I called Spence and he was at the Casino playing some poker (the one Mrs_H and I each blew 20 bucks in 5 minutes at a few years ago)but told me to meet him at his house. So I ended up at his house hanging out again. I am glad I did we watched the movie Downfall, it is in German with sub titles and is about Hitler told through his secretary's eyes. Very good film. Movieman have you seen it? I was there for a couple of hours and now I am home exhausted. This was my second time meeting his 9 month old Shar Pei puppy. Baltimore is his name and he really likes me. I sat curled up next to Spence with his dog on my lap almost the whole time. I still do not know what to think, I mean I am sure he likes me or we would not keep seeing each other, but then again who knows. Oh well tired and rambling that's all folks. I took my profile off the plenty of fish, too many freaks emailing me and I think I may see what happens with Spence. Keeping options open though. There is one other guy I have talked to alot, may meet him this weekend. He is a nice guy I think and he is an ex-NFL player.

Love
The Diva Princess

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Ok so I lied

I actually met him on a website that Rob told me about because it is totally free. Sorry I just don't want to carry around the "internet dating" stigma. Lord knows I am not meeting people any other way. Well sure it does not help I only go out to gay bars with my roommate LOL but still. Anyways I talked with him again last night after work and we will be getting together tonight. Like I said I believe he could be all he says he is but I am very cautious. At least I have seen his place, so I know he has nice things and no girl living there, I have his work number and have called him there, so I know he really does for a living what he says, I have seen the pictures of him from when he did pro baseball (the farm leagues for the expos and pirates) and his pictures from 5 years of pro golf (so I know he is not bullshitting me on that)

Sorry I did not tell you the "whole" story, I knew I eventually would. I love you and just was not in the mood to get a lot of shit.

Love
The Princess

I hate this dating thing

I feel like throwing up, why do I even do this? I just wish I could read minds and know for sure what someone is thinking, feeling etc. So this guy seems really great, we talk and email everyday, whenever he leaves me messages it is always hey gorgeous or hey beautiful hope you are having a good day blah blah really nice person. But I get a leery feeling, like is he also pursuing 10 other people right now? I actually asked him what he was looking for when he joined the site, I asked if he wanted this to be a friendship, f*** buddies or to see if there is more. he told me since we do not know each other well enough yet he cannot say but that he thinks I am a great person and he wants to see what happens, but that he is the type to only be with one person at a time. For some reason I have a feeling he also talking to others which I would be cool with if I only knew. LOL I am actually really cool about that stuff just let me know. I talk to other guys the only difference is they have all been losers lol. Sometimes I wish I could hook up with a guy I knew well and did not have to go through all this beginning of the dating experience questions in my head, but chances are if I knew them well i would not date them or they are married, got a girlfriend lol or are like a brother to me. Oh well such is life just had to vent.

i think i am just going to give up on dating. If the right guy comes along and just sweeps me off my feet that will be cool, but I am done looking!!!

The next date

Well Sunday night I saw him again. This time I went and hung out at his place. Nice place and nice furniture. I had a nice time with him again. He is cute and makes me laugh and is very nice to me. I just hate this whole dating thing I really do. I do not know enough to know if he is genuine in all he says, to be able to really read his body movemements, all guys are nice at first. Will this one stay nice or be a big trolloping jerk? Oh well I will just enjoy it for now and ride this out.

I guess one good thing is he does email or call each day, so that is nice. I know he is busy ALOT with his job so it is nice for him to take that time. Oh well we will see, I am still keeping my eyes and options open though!

Love
S.